How To Pick You Up

[DarkXtecy]

i know what vik goes through...see it not always the same for everyone.....it so happens that even when you try to be friendly, majority can sometimes take that as intruding in their fun...which can end up as a sour result, the idea also depends on finding the right crowed....which can be confusing at some times....what i do now (after many bad encounters) is, i first observe the chat...and also people's character, you will find some people like to be very formal when talk, some are straight up forward, some show a sense of understanding...etc etc...and accordingly i try and slowly slip in their convo...and keeping the flow of whatever the topic is....this way i get comfortable with everyone ( hopefully) and be seen as some on just disturbing them...after this i try and PM some or just carry on with the convo...and yeah 50% of times this gives a better result when it comes to socialising lol...well for me it has lol