How To Pick You Up

[Cuylie]

It's tough to log in and just get bombarded with "Hello", "Hey sexy", "Hey", etc, etc. If I responded to each one that is all I would be doing sometimes. It forces me to go to the Do Not Disturb setting which makes me difficult to meet new people.

I like it when someone gives me something to respond too, like a question or a general observation; it allows me to play off what they said or helps begins a direction of the conversation. If people are feeling bold, sometimes a little scene opening to help set the tone and gauge interest. I know that might put a lot of work on the messenger, but if someone takes the time to write something, I will take the time to write something back, even if it is "I'm so sorry, I'm kinda busy at the moment." An introduction that burns some calories will perk my curiosity and at least make me remember your name on my message list.

Hmmmm....for me, I like intellectual, imaginative and/or emotional stimulation. I know I tend to be an "energy matcher" and I like to know what someone is interested in and partake in that energy.

I will also say that I prefer the written words over the animations. I mean, I don't mind visuals, but they don't really get me going