01-14-2020, 02:21 AM
Well there's been a meme about it...
![[Image: 5e0c56fabb3f6.jpeg]](https://images3.memedroid.com/images/UPLOADED435/5e0c56fabb3f6.jpeg)
... although really, it depends on the mood and the reason. I can very clearly feel when something feels like inducing a neurotransmitter reaction rather than a meaningful, intimate act between two people (and while that's admittedly a broad term, I've been around long enough to know that there are all sorts of intimate acts from the down and dirty to the sweet and sensual, and any of them can be satisfying in the right context). Me, when I can't properly focus enough to give back what I want to get from them, I always feel self-conscious about it. But nothing else really changes; I want my partner to be involved, and I don't think any less of them if someone I approach isn't interested.
... although really, it depends on the mood and the reason. I can very clearly feel when something feels like inducing a neurotransmitter reaction rather than a meaningful, intimate act between two people (and while that's admittedly a broad term, I've been around long enough to know that there are all sorts of intimate acts from the down and dirty to the sweet and sensual, and any of them can be satisfying in the right context). Me, when I can't properly focus enough to give back what I want to get from them, I always feel self-conscious about it. But nothing else really changes; I want my partner to be involved, and I don't think any less of them if someone I approach isn't interested.
![[Image: tumblr_m5n0e4lflM1ryds47o8_r1_250.gif]](http://66.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5n0e4lflM1ryds47o8_r1_250.gif)