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Ok, so clearly you've misunderstood me, and I shall try to rectify that.
First off, you say that some "people who use female characters come across as a bit entitled", and that is why I said I have no idea what kind of hardships guys go through, not as a reply to you, but as a statement from me. And then I go on to explain the hardships we girls go through, to prove that we don't feel entitled in the least. So in no way did I try to claim you had said anything you didn't. Not once did I say you thought men had it hard.

With that clear, next would be that you now keep to saying it's rude to ignore, but you also claim that it's obvious that people would place someone on ignore if it got uncomfortable, I get that you're trying to say that there are certain situations where using ignore is ok, and some where it's not. And I understand that it might be harsh to put someone on ignore when all they do is say hi, on the other hand, they will never be able to say hi to you again, so if that's what you want. Mission accomplished. I don't think people are rude for putting me on ignore, if they don't want my company, that is their right. That's how it works in real life as well. I don't add peoples numbers or add them to facebook if I don't like them, nor do I wish them to contact me. End of.

Now, I hope that covers the misunderstanding part. Onto "you need to understand that your going to get basic or copy pasted replies until you show interest.", which makes no sense to me. When I get a message, I look at 3 things to decide wether I quickly reject them or give them a chance. The name, what they write and how they write it. Now, I get that different people have different criteria. But for the purpose of this example, we shall go by mine.
If someone named "asdfjkhgsd" or "WhoreBreaker" approaches me, chances are, I won't even bother taking what they wrote into consideration. If they pass the name check, I look at what they wrote. If it's a simple "hi" or "hey", I would reject them, due to the boring nature of their message. A person introducing themselves and maybe asking how my day has been or something has a better chance of getting somewhere. And lastly, how they wrote it. I want capital letters, punctuations, and fairly good use of grammar in general. So if someone goes "Hi, Emmie! How are you?", there's a much bigger chance I won't reject them right away compared to a person using "hru bby?" <--- this here is the unsexiest thing ever.
Not me being entitled, me having a system to work through all the messages I get, and not bloating my friends list. I'm on here to enjoy myself, and hopefully giving enjoyment to the people I choose to be with.

And this effort thing goes both ways, don't expect girls to put any effort in if you don't. Just saying. When I do approach someone, and yes, that happens. I always put effort into it, if I didn't, I wouldn't bother at all. We use text here, not visuals, to "seduce" or "interest" people. So using no effort at all, is not very smart in my opinion.
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People like this - by Arisha - 12-29-2015, 07:27 PM
RE: People like this - by Bor - 12-29-2015, 07:36 PM
RE: People like this - by Emmie - 12-29-2015, 07:46 PM
RE: People like this - by Arisha - 12-31-2015, 01:36 PM
RE: People like this - by TomTheFrench - 12-31-2015, 02:26 PM
RE: People like this - by Nikolai - 01-01-2016, 01:23 AM
RE: People like this - by zach6956 - 01-01-2016, 01:26 AM
RE: People like this - by Sunshine_XO - 01-01-2016, 02:10 AM
RE: People like this - by Emmie - 01-01-2016, 06:22 AM
RE: People like this - by Arisha - 01-01-2016, 11:23 PM
RE: People like this - by Nikolai - 01-02-2016, 09:51 PM
RE: People like this - by Mr_Brock - 01-01-2016, 01:31 PM
RE: People like this - by MisterSmiles - 01-01-2016, 03:06 PM
RE: People like this - by Mr_Brock - 01-02-2016, 10:44 AM
RE: People like this - by Sunshine_XO - 01-02-2016, 01:37 PM
RE: People like this - by Emmie - 01-02-2016, 02:55 PM
RE: People like this - by juicylucy - 01-02-2016, 04:00 PM
RE: People like this - by Bor - 01-02-2016, 05:21 PM
RE: People like this - by juicylucy - 01-02-2016, 06:08 PM
RE: People like this - by Bor - 01-02-2016, 08:44 PM
RE: People like this - by Roselynn - 01-02-2016, 06:28 PM
RE: People like this - by Mr_Brock - 01-02-2016, 07:36 PM
RE: People like this - by Roselynn - 01-02-2016, 07:42 PM
RE: People like this - by Mr_Brock - 01-02-2016, 08:56 PM
RE: People like this - by juicylucy - 01-02-2016, 09:32 PM
RE: People like this - by Emmie - 01-03-2016, 02:37 AM
RE: People like this - by Alex-007 - 01-03-2016, 03:31 AM
RE: People like this - by Nikolai - 01-11-2016, 04:29 PM
RE: People like this - by Bansai - 01-13-2016, 03:36 AM
RE: People like this - by juicylucy - 01-03-2016, 03:25 AM
RE: People like this - by Bansai - 01-11-2016, 09:58 AM
RE: People like this - by Soske - 01-11-2016, 08:30 PM
RE: People like this - by Emmie - 01-11-2016, 06:15 PM
RE: People like this - by Arisha - 01-11-2016, 07:35 PM
RE: People like this - by Emmie - 01-11-2016, 09:56 PM
RE: People like this - by juicylucy - 01-11-2016, 10:45 PM
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RE: People like this - by MsTan - 01-13-2016, 09:26 AM
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RE: People like this - by MsTan - 01-13-2016, 05:52 PM
RE: People like this - by Bansai - 01-14-2016, 09:22 AM
RE: People like this - by Emmie - 01-17-2016, 05:57 AM
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RE: People like this - by Tantrum - 01-17-2016, 11:13 AM
RE: People like this - by Bansai - 01-17-2016, 01:03 PM
RE: People like this - by Emmie - 01-17-2016, 01:48 PM
RE: People like this - by Bor - 01-17-2016, 04:09 PM
RE: People like this - by Emmie - 01-17-2016, 04:24 PM
RE: People like this - by Bor - 01-17-2016, 04:38 PM
RE: People like this - by Tantrum - 01-17-2016, 08:34 PM
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