The sociology of players: the various kind of MnF Users

[Simple Tania]

(01-06-2019, 08:00 AM)Boris327 Wrote: Simple Tania, you incredibly "look like" a girl I've met and known for a long time in this game. I wonder if you're her spiritual twin... Or even her. Who knows?

Kiss.

I've no idea, i've been here for so long and met so many people, i guess we'll "look like" anyone else after a while...
PS MsTan/Fenix_TS/Simple Tania and now MsTan again...

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(01-06-2019, 08:18 PM)Purest_Elf Wrote: The Whitest BBC

You know the kind. They terrorise women with an ebonic dialect so fanciful and exaggerated it’s a wonder if they have ever met a black person in real life! With little to no personality, and a faux-confidence almost juvenile in its innocence, they are mnfclub’s digital blackface.

Make no mistake, these are no soul brothers! Deep inside they only have one love, and one obsession. No, it’s not white women. No it isn’t a fake n-word pass! It’s cock. Big fat black cock. They love it! The odes to black cock written by some BBC players would put the greatest of romantic poets to shame! Many a women is left confused when their BBC partner ignores her to sing praises to the turgid magnificence of his own ebony fuck-spire! Turgid within, turgid without, one can’t help but wonder if such a man needs a moment alone with his meat?

To make matters worse, it’s hard to tell them all apart! Pick any two of the following list; BBC, Black, Hung, Mamba, Mandingo, Master, Thug and you have your very own Whitest BBC name. An extra blanket of bland uniformity to an already expired stereotype.

Just hope they don't ask you to insult 'white sissy bois'...we'll leave the 'snake in the grass cuckolds' for another day.
(Or did we just cover them? ~ )

OMG...ROFL...
Thank you so much...not much of a sociological status but, my God...that's an amazing piece....Girl, you made me laugh so much!!!
You forgot the BWC lovers, like something we use to say here in Portugal "É a mesma merda, só mudam as moscas" ndr "Same shit, only the flies changed"...

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(01-06-2019, 10:37 AM)Boris327 Wrote: A new Category:

The Sex Huns


Their ideal: Jason Momoa fucking the girl with Dragons on a fur carpet in GoT.

My God...can a stray cat intercourse with a Sex Hun? I'm a stray cat with "barbaric" behavior...or i used to be...Good times!!!

[Boris327]

Ahhhh ! The cliché of the BBC ! I always wondered: do the girls REALLY like that kind of guys? Some seem to be addicted to the BBC cliché... or is it just an "attitude", like showing off by going out with the bad boy of the college...
Or is it just to relax sometimes, far away from complications?

The real black guys of the game seem to be much more complex, varied and sensitive than the BBC "from the hood" cliché you can find. I've heard that rumor: some (many?) "BBC" in this game seem to be white guys, in fact. A way to catch the BBC-addicted girls?

What is dramatic with the BBC-cliché-guys is that they're finally treated like they treat the girls: they're taken and thrown away like paper handkerchiefs, unless they find a few real subs. I've heard stories of girls chased, insulted, or covered with reproach by some BBC that they had neglected after "sex": "I've got feelings, you know!"... "Why don't you answer me anymore?". That's the problem: when you play the Big Bad Unfeeling Black Rap-Style Caricature, you shouldn't be surprised not to find "love" or "feelings" in this game... When you play once the BBC cliché, you can't get out of the character.

Anyway, if some girls like that kind, their choice.. "Yo bitch cum here...".. "I wanna fuk yur ass"

[hankypanky]

(01-03-2019, 07:46 PM)SissyNektar Wrote:

(12-31-2018, 03:42 PM)Boris327 Wrote:

(12-31-2018, 04:09 AM)hankypanky Wrote: I've experienced a few main ones:

1. Immediately start an RP
2. Hey how are you *these are the worst*
3. Start with discussing/acting on your bio
4. Have a conversation about common interests
5. Exp help

Mmm.. I have nothing against you. But when I read what you wrote... you seem not to appreciate those 5 categories. But...what options would people have to approach you? Your 5 options have eliminated 99% (and more) of the possibilities to speak to someone that you don't know at first, in this game.

You don't like the common rules of politeness that are used in real life. You write a bio, but you don't like if people react to it. You don't like if people are direct. You don't like if they're indirect. You don't like direct RP or XP. What, for example, would be the kind of approach you would like? I'm like a scientist, wondering what would be the kind of sentences that could be accepted by you at first contact.

To be fair, I don't think hankypanky is necessarily dissing anyone of the categories he listed (with the exception of #2). He merely brought up some player archetypes he had met in-game.

@Purest_Elf: Holy shit, the level 1 "wanna rp?" mystery guy XD I've run into this strange creature on here more times than I can count. Beautifully summed up

Yup don't mind any of those 5 types. Like you mentioned yourself, it's 99% of what I see. I was just trying to answer the question as I saw it, maybe I misread the intent. I only don't like #2 because it's usually 5 minutes before you find out what they actually want/are into and by then you just committed 5 minutes to something you may have absolutely no interest in. I almost never block anyone because I'm always looking for new and exciting things. I feel like the blocking item should be used less often, because it makes some newer folks leave the game early before they come into their own.

[Boris327]

I'm relieved that you didn't take too hard my remark and, as I said, I over-interpretated what you had said. I agree with you: some use the "ignore" click like mad and it can be really shocking for the newcomers who just try to communicate the way they can.

One day, I had seen an avatar who had the name of a known porn actress. I had heard rumors that there was a real porn actress on the game. So I asked her very naively (without any hidden idea or without having any special intent to "fuck" her): "Are you the REAL "xxxx"?"... She immediately "ignored" me.

I still wonder why, to this day. She even seemed to really deeply hate me. Just a simple question... and that ? The ignore reasons can really be sometimes mysterious. I'll have to integrate them in my sociological "researchs".

Maybe she found me too nice or too polite. Now, I saw on her bio that she is a BBC fan...

[-J-]

The BBC fetish might warrant its own thread, but I'll simply say this:

I do have a BBC avatar, and I bring him out very, very rarely.

He has an English accent.


To contribute, let's see if we can't glean some useful information from the case studies we've seen so far. Here's what I've noticed both from the posts here and from my three (holy crap I'm getting too old for this shit) years here on MnF Club:

1. Everyone at MnF Club has varying degrees of readiness for sex. Some are ready to get it on at a moment's notice. Some are not interested at all and simply want to talk to people. Many more are somewhere in between. A lot of the veteran players have seen many, many things. But if they're not completely burnt out, there's something that might coax them to step into bed, or some other lewd situation. Sometimes people have bad days. Sometimes they just want to be assholes. But unless you've been a jerk, rejections are generally not because of something you've done. It might be because of something you didn't do, but again, unless you see you've done something particularly bad, it's best to take some time to relax and move on.
2. Online social status is entirely subjective. Some people care very much how much someone's raised/spent/accomplished. To others it matters very little. In terms of sexual readiness, higher social status in-game generally correlates to a higher number of suitors. But that alone doesn't rule out interest in new people. Club leaders may have a lot of PMs to deal with from their members, but in general there's no harm in approaching one just like anyone else who catches your interest.
3. Dynamic, honest approaches generate more favorable results. In every example Purest_Elf listed, she primarily cited character flaws as reasons for a failure to connect. Failure to demonstrate intellect and creativity. Narcissism. Lack of self-awareness. A first message using complete sentences straight from the heart might not lead to anything more than an unexplained ignore, but ask anyone with a female avatar how many times in one minute they say they get the message "hi" from someone. Your odds are better if you're willing to show more of yourself (and I don't mean sending dick pics, unless yours is particularly photogenic).

To sum up, I propose that there isn't a wrong way to play MnF Club. Which means that if you stick around long enough, you'll eventually find your groove.

[Purest_Elf]

On the topic of being ignored, it’s most often a problem with value. A stranger on the internet has no innate worth to the person they are messaging. Perhaps a catchy name, bio, sex level and premium status will help a little, but if that first message doesn’t sell you as a good time, why shouldn’t you be ignored?

Human decency? Politeness? I'm not so sure it's polite to believe anyone is entitled to a response.

[Boris327]

No, no. I didn't mean to be ignored like "I don't answer you"... But to be put on "Ignore List" for the smallest reason, or no apparent reason or just for ONE polite PM. One day, I was "Ignored List" just because I was barking (only one bark) for an auction...

[Purest_Elf]

Oh, there’s a bunch of guys I know that do that. They message every new avatar I make, then ignore you if you don’t respond within about 30 seconds.

There is that one unfriendly guy who asks you to block him if you won‘t send him nudes too. Always fun to mess around with him and give him the stonewall. He gets so mad!

[Simple Tania]

As to 'the ignore shithole" two things:
1. Never in all my years around i 'ignored' anyone just because he said 'hi' 'hello' 'you're damn hot' 'I would fuck that, fuck this, suck here and/or suck there' and so on...nope, never! OK the 'hi and 'hello' persons i sometimes forgot to answer back(yeah, after a while it's difficult to reply to everyone) The other kind of guys(yep, BBC and the rest of the gang included) i sometimes had so much fun...as a good stray cat, i simply adore to play with my preys, right Boris? Ah...i almost forgot, there was a time, some of them ended here (you know the thread) and so many 'gave me the ignore shit', yessss...there was a time i was eager for being 'ignored' by the dush that tried to annoy me! GOOD TIMES!
2. People that use the ignore or the 'not accessible' button quite often...Boris said all about them...so, i don't have anything else to add!

[Boris327]

Ahhhh, Simple Tania, what a pleasure to read you (it's no an empty compliment, it comes from my naive heart). The only sentence I didn't understand is "some of them ended here, you know the thread".. What did you mean, I didn't catch exactly the situation or the kind of attitude you described? Do you mean you pushed them to "infuriation point" or something like that?

Anyway, dear, another Category... I wanted to speak about it later, maybe I'll re-write it in a more sociological-style, but the last conversations pushed me to speak about it now. Is it a sociological style I'll describe or more a psychological type?

Let's talk about the:

50 Seconds from Greed

They have a very low level of resistance from frustration. 30 seconds, like Tania said, or a max of 50 seconds? I heard so many stories of those guys who send a message to a girl and put her on "Ignore List" if she doesn't answer in 30 seconds, 3 minutes in their best days. They can't even imagine that maybe the girl has received 5 or 6 "Hi" PM and that it TAKES TIME to answer. Or maybe she's chatting with a friend? Or maybe she's free not to answer...

I suppose that the "50 Seconds from Greed" have a low time of survival (or desire to stay) in the game because Frustration is the law here or, I would say, the Waiting. There are 50 shades of frustration in this game until Satisfaction. For me, it is exciting: the Waiting.

I heard the story of a "50 seconds" noob who was new to the game. He asked help in "public chat": "How does the game work?". A female friend of mine who was passing by nicely gave him a few clues about the mechanics of the Game. He asked: "How do you make the girl go to bed with you?". "Well", she says, "You'll have to be seductive, convincing, to make them want to do IT with you... Or to have money to give them by doing mini-games, lol"

"Hmm, OK... So, could you give me a help with my first fuck?"

"Hmm... lol... you'll have to be more seductive for that..."

"What? But this is a GAME! Why don't you want? I'm fed up with this stupid game! I give up! Fuck you all!"

End of the story. The conversation lasted only a bit more than 50 seconds and nobody saw him again.

There are not only the "Dick-in-the-hand" impatient (young?) men who have this low level of resistance to frustration. As men, we are much less "asked" by the girls (that's the sad sociological and cultural rule **sob** I'm not complaining, please do not cry and have no pity for us fragile dick-creatures), but there are also low patience girls.

I remember having been put on "ignore list" or de-friended by girls just because I hadn't been on the game at the same time as them for a few days, or because we had made friends but I didn't have time for their phantasm at the moment (real life calling) and.. when I come back to the game, I have been DEFRIENDED, IGNORE-LISTED, ***soooooob*** . It's so horrible...

So, is this a psychological category or a sociological one? The "50 Seconds from Greed" are like some quantum particles. They exist, they are frequent, but their length of existence can be short.

I suppose I wouldn't like to meet them in reality. They're probably the same in RL. Those guys who whistle the girls in the street and who insult them if they don't answer, those girls who get furious against you because you're not still a telepath after having known them since 5 minutes...

The symptoms of this Category are varied, and many examples have already been given in preceding posts.

The common point: a way to see the world where everyone should be like you, have the same rhythm as you, have the same needs as you at the same time and have the same points of views. If you don't: you're an enemy (even if you don't make them take any risk, even if you don't, technically, put them in any danger or trouble). And a VERY LOW level of resistance to frustration.

The range comes from the Immediately Sexual-Obsessed Guy to the... yes, I take my risks... the SJW players, who can "Ignore-List" or "Report" you because you bark for an Auction or a Party and they think it is bad or just because you don't seem to agree with them on some subject.

Another example is those guys who want girls to have sex with them AND to pay the hotel also.
"But, play a mini-game, three minutes and you'll have the money to pay the hotel and you'll have the girl"
"No, I don't have the patience"

"I want it all, I want it now"