The big thread on butts

[SissyNektar]

If one thing can be argued to unite all of humankind, it's butts. We all have one, we all know someone who has one, we all know someone who is one. So why then isn't there a thread dedicated to butts? Being passionate about all things butt-related, I'll take it upon myself to create one.

What's the purpose of this thread, you may ask. It's to discuss any and all things butt-related, silly! Maybe you have stories you want to share, questions you want asked, pictures you want to post, who knows? Perhaps you're like me and you love butts. Maybe you hate them. Maybe you're fascinated by them, maybe disgusted. Maybe you're indifferent (impossible!)

I thought I'd start by asking, have you ever experimented with buttsex? With guys, or girls? On what end were you? Me, I've both given and recieved anal, involving both guys and girls (though not at the same time. My life's not that crazy!) I'll share the context if anyone is curious, but I don't want to risk oversharing in my first post

Remember, there are no stupid butt-related questions, only stupid butt heads.

[docdom]

I also love butts! I love stretching them wide open, both my own and others.

Also would love to hear the context of that scenario you mentioned.

[SissyNektar]

Awesome Glad to know I'm not alone in butt-appreciation!

Now to give some context to my encounters, without getting lewd (that's what RP is for  )

First time with a girl, giving: A 19 year old Nektar goes to Hong Kong, meets an Australian cougar, loses virginity (I've lived a charmed life). The next day I visit again to pick up my watch that I forgotten there and we ended up in bed again. This time we talked about fantasies, and she let slip she'd fantasized about an MMF threesome. Quick on the uptake I pointed out "then you've fantasized about anal?" A few minutes we were looking through her place for lube.

First time with a guy, giving and receiving: Somewhere in my 20s a friend and I upgraded to friends with benefits. We would watch horror movies, which would inevitably lead to watching porn, which later delveloped into us giving and recieving handjobs and oral. We never talked about it afterwards. It was just our strange ritual. One night, during our session, he suddenly gets on all fours and presents to me. I go for it, fucking him until I cum. Then I proceed to reverse cowgirl him, returning the favor. Mind you, we were drunk as hell and lube was in short supply. Thankfully I had experimented a bit on myself for a while by this point in my life, so I knew some tricks to make it at least possible. Overall a painful experience though. As the relationship developed I became increasingly feminized, really coming into my own as a sissy.

First time with a girl, receiving: Some years later my girlfriend and I are on a long cartrip. I decide to take a risk and tell her all about my adventures with the guy mentioned above, hoping that she would still be into me. She was more than that. She spent the rest of the car ride quizzing me on the experience, allowing me to spare no detail. Less than a week later we go shopping for a strapon, with my clear instruction that "this is your dick, hun. I don't get to pick the size, just like you didn't get to pick mine when we met." The 8 inch monster she picked out made us both a happy couple. Lots of lube, some awkward thrusting at first, and then I was blissed out as my girlfriend made me her little sissy bitch ^^ 



Docdom, what is it about butts that turn you on? Why is stretching such a turn-on? When did you begin experimenting?

[docdom]

I'm not sure what it is but I think everyone just loves butts. I enjoy stretching them because I see it as a game to be able to take bigger and bigger things. I've only ever done it on myself with household objects. I've tried with girls by playfully adding a finger in during doggy but it's always resulted in a slap haha. Every time I've made sure it's well lubed but I've never met someone who has shown any interest in anal, and it sucks cause that's one of my biggest fetishes.

[SissyNektar]

EDIT: Omg I'm sorry if this post comes off as an advice column! That wasn't my intent /EDIT


Aw Don't give up searching, doc. There are many butt curious people out there. The trick is just to make them open up about it.

As for playfully adding a finger during doggy, unless you really know the person's preferences, yeah, you're going to get slapped! Given how taboo our little kink is (copious amounts of porn not withstanding), you need to establish some form of trust in your partner, which can be especially hard during a one night stand. Instead of going straight for the goal, I'd suggest maybe trying  the following:

- Talk to your partner. It may sound obvious, but if you're open and honest about what you want, chances of you getting it will increase. If your partner isn't into it, then there's really not much to do, and you'll probably feel a bit awkward afterward, but if she's curious and into a bit of play but too shy to ask, taking the initiative will likely put your partner more at ease.

- Show how much you're into it. Rather than poking her, ask her to poke you. During oral, for instance, ask her to rub you back there, and then ask her to step it up with a finger inside you. Seeing how much you enjoy it, it could stir some curiosity in her as well. Now you're both in this together, rather than it just being her in her fortress, feeling a battering ram against her gate

Ultimately, neither of these will garauntee you any play, of course. If your partner isn't into it, then she just isn't. But by establishing honesty and trust, you're more likely to get to experiment

[docdom]

The thing is I've always talked to them about my interest with it but they never really show much interest or understanding. I will be honest every time I've done it, it has been surprise, but like I said I've always ensured it was lubed, etc. but they've just never been receptive to it. I thought at least 1 girl would be willing to let me experiment with their ass but they just haven't. I've been grasping at straws trying to slide 1 in slowly during doggy just praying they'd somewhat enjoy it enough for me to continue but it's just never happened. Oh well, the search continues haha.

[Emmie]

If you're gonna do anal, you need to decide on that before hand. For a lot of reasons. Preparation and so on.

[SissyNektar]

Very true. If know I'd feel very self-conscious if I didn't get the time to prepare beforehand. That's probably another major factor of why people don't respond well to surprise pokings.

There's a lot of logistics that go into a good session. While the lack of spontaniety may seem like a turn off (by the time you're ready the heat of the moment will have passed), I find that the preparation builds anticipation. You and your partner both know what is about to go down (for me it's the thrill of knowing I'm about to submit), and when you're finally ready, the act becomes all the more intense and intimate.

[Sasso]

In a world of over exposure to porn and being de-sensitized to sex, people often forget that sex is a deeply personal thing that requires connection and communication, ESPECIALLY for something as delicate as anal. Surprise anal is not a sexy concept, and in some cases, it can be dangerous, so if you want to have anal, you and your partner need to be able to communicate effectively to understand what prep is needed, what some unforeseen outcomes might be, and to take it slowly so you are both comfortable at all times.

Whew, that was serious. I'm going to talk about fun anal things because god I love it. Disclaimer, I've never received anal (Although I desperately want to), but I have given it.

An open question thou, what are peoples thoughts on eating ass? I've eaten ass before, and I quite enjoyed it, although the mind barrier is a strange thing to get over (after all, you are putting your tongue against someones ass).

[SissyNektar]

My thoughts on eating ass? Love it ^^ I don't really have that mental block you're describing, though I do make sure to make a quick visual inspection before taking the plunge. If it looks like I'm going to have a bad time, I direct my lips and tongue to my partner's genitals instead. Never had any complaints about that rule so far 


If there is a major thing I don't like about eating ass, it's my inability to see my partner's expression while doing it. I want to see how they react! Body language only tells part of the story.